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With Thanksgiving… An Advent Message

Sunday, November 27th, was the beginning of the New Year per the Christian Calendar. It was also the First Sunday of Advent. Below is the video of the Advent sermon I preached at the Westside Church of Christ from Psalm 100 which is called “With Thanksgiving.”

Speak Carefully: Words Do Matter!

This post isn’t about the politics of Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton but it is an observation and an opportunity to learn. I want to offer some thoughts about the words we speak in public. While I have in mind church leaders such as elders and ministers, what follows is sound advise for anyone and might just help you avoid having to insert a foot in your mouth or worse.

Unless you’ve been cave dwelling for the last few days, you know that Donald Trump is taking a lot of criticism for his remarks about Hillary Clinton and the second amendment. Trump suggested that Clinton wants to take away the second amendment right to bear arms and that there’s nothing that can be done about it but then suggested that people “the second amendment people” could do something about it. Trump’s critics believe that this is a veiled threat while his supporters believe it’s only a plea for increased political activity.

Hillary Clinton responded by reminding her supporters that “Words matter…” Whatever Trump may have meant is besides the point. What is important and is at least one thing that Clinton is right about is that words do matter!

“Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.”

– Proverbs 21:23

Let’s not pretend that words are insignificant and meaningless. What we say does matter and so we better take care to think about the words we use.

Everyone of us, especially those who speak in public forums, will eventually say something ill-advised. That’s seems par for the course and when it happens, the best thing we can do is apologize. However, the more we speak out of turn, saying something careless or hurtful, the more credibility we lose. And remember, credibility is part of our trust factor and it’s like a tree… it takes years to grow and just a few minutes with a few foolish words to tear down.

As a minister, I write my sermons out word for word as a manuscript. While I don’t preach word for word from the manuscript, writing my sermons out like this accomplishes several objectives and one of those is giving careful thought to the words I say. I’ve learned this lesson the hard way because I have had to apologize for something I said, something that was true but was poorly stated, which led to insult rather than instruction. In fact, if your a beginning preacher, here’s some free advise: take the time to write your sermons, thinking carefully about the words you use because the words you speak do matter.

A politician might be able to play the game of political spin and get away with saying something careless but that is not so likely with us who lead among churches. Regardless of what Trump may have meant, let’s see his carelessness as a reminder that our words do matter. Let us resolve ourselves to be wise and give thought to what we say before we speak!

About Sunday’s Sermon

About Sunday’s sermon… Perhaps it was the very word from the preacher that you needed to hear. A convicting word, an encouraging word, a challenging word, and so on. If that is the case, then praise the Lord! You heard a word from the Lord through the preacher that God has appointed to preach his word and for that, as a preacher myself, I am glad.

But perhaps yesterday’s sermon wasn’t so good and you’re not happy. The sermon just fell flat, the preacher’s message just wasn’t that inspiring unlike those TED Talks you love, the sermon went a little too long… or was too short. Maybe it’s just the preacher who isn’t that dynamic of a speaker… if only your preacher could deliver a sermon like _______ (insert the name of your favorite preacher). I’m sorry!

I’m sorry because you missed hearing a word from the Lord and it has nothing to do with your preacher. That’s right! I think the problem is you. For whatever reason, you didn’t come open to what God might say to you through the word your preacher spoke. Lurking behind your unhappiness is a whole lot of consumerism, selfishness, and expectations that are impossible to satisfy. Here’s the problem

  • As long as you come wanting to hear a sermon like your favorite preacher always delivers, then you’ll likely miss what God wanted to say through your preacher — who clearly isn’t your favorite.
  • As long as your worried about how long it is until that closing hymn, then you’ll likely never have enough time to hear a word from the Lord since He doesn’t work on your time schedule — though you’ll likely have enough time to complain later.
  • As long as your more worried about the way your preacher delivers the sermon rather than listening to hear the word of God preached, then you’ll likely miss the word of God — all the while blaming the preacher.

I could go on but I think I’ve made my point. Now let me as a preacher elaborate a little more.

Why I’m Writing This…

Right now I’m in a ministry transition. So other that guest preaching on a few Sunday’s, I have been the one sitting in worship and hearing the preacher preach. Over the past few months I have had the opportunity to hear about ten different preachers and all of them had a different style of delivery. I could, if I wanted to, evaluate every preacher for the development of content and delivery of the sermon but I have intentionally chosen not to do so because that is what God wants. That is, God has not blessed me with the opportunity to gather in worship with other Christians, which typically includes hearing a sermon during that gathering, just so that I can critically evaluate what I like and dislike about a sermon. If I myself want to hear a word from God then I must gather in the presence of God with a listening posture, open to what God might say through the foolishness of preaching (cf. 1 Cor 1:21).

The same is true for you. If you want to hear a word from God then you must gather in the presence of God with a listening posture, open to what God might say through the foolishness of preaching. Don’t get me wrong… I’m not giving preachers a pass for being lazy and not preparing well (which is usually very evident). But just because your preacher did not hit a home-run with last Sunday’s sermon does not nullify the word of God spoken for those who have come hungry for the word of God. And I am, as a preacher, standing up for other preachers because some of the complaints I have heard about one preacher or another tell me that there’s a problem and it’s not the preacher who has the problem.

So about Sunday’s sermon… Perhaps you heard a word from the Lord and if so, as I said earlier, praise the Lord! May that word be lived out in your very life this week and beyond! And if you didn’t… perhaps next Sunday!